BEYOND THE BOARDROOM
Before the CIO chair. Before the books. Before the coaching sessions. There was — and always will be — family.
Home base: Noida, Uttar Pradesh
THE PERSON
I grew up in Begusarai, Bihar — where family was everything. Not in a greeting-card way. In a real way. Where the people around you shaped how you saw the world, what you believed was possible, and who you decided to become.
Today I live in Noida with my family — and everything I do professionally is, at some level, in service of the life we are building together. The coaching practice, the books, the speaking — none of it exists in isolation from the people I come home to.
I believe strongly that the quality of your personal life shapes the quality of your professional decisions. Leaders who are grounded at home lead better at work. It is not a coincidence — it is a system.
The best version of Vivek Agrawal — the coach, the advisor, the author — exists because of the people who know the other version. The one who makes chai too strong, loses track of time reading, and never really switches off completely.
"The most important leadership role I will ever hold is the one I play at home."
WHAT HOME TAUGHT ME
Every leadership principle I hold professionally was first learned personally.
My family taught me that real support is not contingent on performance. You show up for people because they matter — not because they are currently succeeding. I try to bring that into every coaching relationship.
In our home, learning was never presented as a chore. It was a way of engaging with the world. Seekhna band toh jeetna band did not begin as a book title — it began as something I genuinely believe, and learned to believe at home.
Children teach you patience in ways no leadership course ever could. The lesson: growth cannot be rushed. You create the conditions and trust the process. I use this in coaching every single day.
A stable, loving home is not separate from professional success — it is a precondition for it. The leaders I admire most are the ones who figured this out early.
ROOTS
I am from Begusarai, Bihar. A town that most people outside Bihar have never heard of — and that I think about more often than I would have expected when I was young and eager to leave.
Small towns have a way of teaching you things that large cities cannot. Resourcefulness. Community. The understanding that most of what you will achieve in life will come from effort and character — not from your starting circumstances.
My roots in Begusarai — St. Paul's School, the people, the pace — are not something I have moved on from. They are something I carry forward. They show up in how I coach, how I write, and what I believe is possible for people who are willing to keep learning.
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Noida, Uttar Pradesh
HUSTLE WITH DIRECTION
"I advocate hustle — but hustle in the direction of your life goals, never at the cost of them. The problem was never hard work. It is hard work pointed at the wrong things."
— Vivek Agrawal
Let me be clear: I believe in hustle. I have worked hard for everything I have built, and I ask the same of the leaders I coach. But hustle is only worth it when it moves you toward the life you actually want — not away from it. I have seen too many talented people pour relentless energy into a version of success that looked impressive from the outside and felt hollow from the inside. The problem was never the effort. It was the direction.
So this is not a case against hustle culture — it is a case for hustling with intent. The goal I work toward personally, and help my clients find, is a life where the professional and personal pull in the same direction. Where your effort is an expression of who you are and what you value. Where coming home at the end of a hard day feels like arrival, not escape.
If you want to know more about the professional side — the coaching, the books, the career — the rest of the site is there for that.